Gendered French pronouns: ‘my,’ ‘your,’ ‘his’ and ‘her’
If you haven’t done so already, read over the introductory lesson on gender in French grammar. Once you get the basic principal of all nouns having gender and start to memorize the various French words vocabulary for ‘the’ and ‘a,’ you’ll be ready to move on to…
… Gendered pronouns! Get ready folks, ‘my,’ ‘your,’ ‘his,’ and ‘her’ all have gender in French, but they have nothing to do with the person in question!
When we talk about possession in French, the gender always matches the object, not the possessor.
mon (masc. sing.)
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- e.g. - mon livre [my book]
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I am a woman, but a book (livre) is masculine, so (no matter who is speaking), ‘my book’ is always ‘mon livre.’
ma (fem. sing.)
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- e.g. - ma calculatrice [my calculator]
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Again, calculatrice is feminine, so no matter who possesses it, that person alway says ‘ma calculatrice.’
mes (m. or f. plur.)
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- e.g. - mes amis (m. pl.) [my friends]
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- e.g. - mes clefs (f. pl.) [my keys]
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NOTE: mon is used before nouns of either gender that begin with a vowel. This rule is based purely in sound.
- e.g. - mon amie (f.) [my friend]
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Same rules as with ‘my.’
ton (masc. sing. informal)
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- e.g. - ton stylo [your pen]
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Doesn’t matter if the owner is a man or a woman, it is always ton stylo.
ta (fem. sing. informal)
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- e.g. - ta bouteille [your bottle]
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‘Bottle’ is feminine, and so must the possessive pronoun be.
tes (m. or f. plur. informal)
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- e.g. - tes chaises (f. pl.) [your chairs]
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- e.g. - tes crayons (m. pl.) [your pencils]
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NOTE: As with mon, ton is always used in front of a noun starting with a vowel.
- e.g. - ton idée (f.) [your idea]
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In French, when talking about third person possessive pronouns, gender refers to the object, not the possessor.
This is one of the hardest things for English-speakers to wrap their heads around when speaking French. Forget about ‘his’ and ‘her,’ because those words refer to the gender of the possessor.
son (masc. sing.)
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- e.g. - son livre [his/her book]
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Whether it’s Jane’s book or John’s book, it’s always son livre.
sa (fem. sing.)
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- e.g. - sa banque [his/her bank]
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ses (m. or f. plur.)
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- e.g. - ses clefs (f. pl.) [his/her keys]
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- e.g. - ses stylos (m. pl.) [his/her pens]
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As with mon and ton, son is always used in front of a singular noun that starts with a vowel, whether the noun is masculine or feminine.
- e.g. - son idée (f.) [his/her idea]
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Anne has studied and spoken French for over a decade and has lived in both France and Francophone Cameroon. She strives to write lessons that reflect her real experiences and represent the way people really speak.
